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  Hello friends, (My actual nursery) Note: I've updated this list as a now mom.  Here's the thing, it gets overwhelming to hear people tell you what you need for your baby. No one tells you about practicality, and everyone just assumes you have the space for all these things.  If you're a first time mama-to-be, or it's been a while since you've had a baby, or simply you're reading as food for thought and you have pregnant friends and upcoming showers to attend, these lists will help you get an idea of what moms and babies actually need!  The baby market nowadays is so modern and great! It's a good time to be a mom! From fancy pacifiers to the trendiest clothes, I feel like the following never get old, and are super important to have.  Also consider if you live in a compact place, such as a small house or apartment, you definitely want to keep your registry as basic as possible. I've also put together a list of items that aren't a necessity, but would...

Hello guys--thank you all for being patient!  Let's dig right into it. Relationships: With family: This has to do with the individual connections, maturity level and the dynamics of your family and your own with your husband. I know this particular point isn't a one size fits all situation. Some people live with their in-laws, or other family members.   Regardless of location or who you share your nest with, one thing I can tell you is you should not let anyone disturb with your inner peace, which can affect your baby and your emotions. If you feel threatened, mistreated, or unsafe, please speak up and try to reach out for help. Surround yourself with uplifting family members and avoid the toxic ones as much as you can.  With partner: Similar to my last point, during this time, you need all the support, kindness, and security from your partner, and nothing less. Remember you should not be tied up to anything and anyone that does harm to you. You should be cherished...

Why hello lovely world,  I've been wanting to write this for a while, but I finally feel I'm in a place where I'm decently knowledgeable to the point of not only serve as an encourager, but also answer a question or two.  I am almost 36 weeks and looking extremely pregnant. This journey has had more ups than downs for me. Honestly, I would actually have to think hard of what the downs are, which is good. Let me start off by saying this pregnancy has gone by way too fast, and it's been wonderful in lots of ways. I've gotten to know my husband as a future dad instead of just my partner & best friend,  I've learned that though life will never be the same,  also because of Covid, it's still as meaningful as you want to make it! And you should embrace the good, and also the ugly. A good attitude is key! For part 1, I thought I'd first make a list of items you should get, as well as foods.  Part 2 will be about relationships and mental/physical health.  ...